I completely agree with rainbow fish, just do your best to be there! This process is so hard, especially because of that helpless feeling but the truth is everyone feels that way. Your parents feel helpless and unable to protect you and you feel like you can’t make things easier on them. It just really sucks. I’m thinking of you and your step dad and family! Keep positive, remember to make the most of each day, and definitely vent your feelings <3 Praying for good health!