My parents did a similar thing and it sucked. They ended up blindsiding me when things got very bad and I wasn’t prepared at all. I am not mad at them, I understand that they wanted me to not worry and to go one with my life, but I do feel that I would have preferred to be kept a little bit more in the loop. If I could go back, I would have talked to them and let them know that I could handle it. Stay strong!